Surfing through YouTube last night, I wanted to see what people were creating content about “social media” recently, and I stumbled upon this masterpiece that I had to share with you. It truly captures the fundamental shift that social media has had on the way we communicate.

I contend it’s IMPOSSIBLE after watching this to still be of “the world is flat” mentality when thinking social media is a fad. Have you seen this video? What are your thoughts about the social media revolution?

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Talking and and Listening

drive social Media.

Combined you have what is called Conversation-both offline and online.

Conversation has been something that most of us have been very good at, and have found it natural to do.

Some are good at it.

Some are really good at it.

Until we go online and in the social media sphere.

It seems some folks whack out and lose all sense of conversation and communication. I saw someone recently send out numerous messages on facebook and twitter and all it was, was a big sales pitch. Eric Worre and i were facebooking back and forth about how new home business owners and online entrepreneurs throw up on their connections trying to get them to listen to them.

Then i remembered what we taught in a facebook class last year and wanted to share that with you. Hope this helps in understanding how to hold a conversation in the social sphere.

I did a consulting job with a company recently and found that there folks were like volcanoes throwing up in the social sphere “hurry hurry step right up-step this way” – and I just shook my head.

THAT is not how you communicate in the social sphere. It is a social CONVERSATION- where 2 flows of ideas happen that are related to one focus and that is what is being discussed. Seems that all some folks want to do is create a one way flow and then expect you to act on it.

NOT gonna happen.

Here are three very simple rules for social media conversation:

1) VALUE is the key to any conversation-so soak it with Value so the person you are talking to-will talk about your conversation to others.

THAT is a big secret.

You want them talking about YOUR conversation with them because of what they learned, felt, or experienced. Get people excited and wanting to talk to you again because of what they took away from the conversation.

2)  ASK what is important to people and what they are looking for online and in social media-and talk about that.

Many business as well as home business owners talk about what THEY are looking for in social media. Keep your eyes and ears off of you, and out them on the person you are talking with. Find out what they are really looking for in social media. Ask them about why they are on it and how can you help them obtain what they are looking for.

Then help them.

Talk is cheap.

Help them and become their hero.

3) ALWAYS tell them how much you have enjoyed this conversation and thank them for their connection.

People will remember more of the emotion they took away form a conversation then the words. Get them feeling good and warm fuzzies about talking to you. Thank them and tel them you know you appreciate their time and you enjoyed LISTENING to their communication.

Then the last word they should see and read from you- is their NAME.

“Thanks for the time- see you Nancy.” Or “Enjoyed it- lets chat later Tom.”

This will create a great emotional connection that they will take away from your social media conversation.

These are 3 little rules for social media conversation but will rock your world in social media marketing.

blessings…Doug Firebaugh
PassionFire Training
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Editor’s note: this post was written by Doug Firebaugh of PassionFire International. If you’re passionate about social media, social media marketing and social networking lifestyle design, contact me about writing an article yourself.

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It’s been a long time coming. I hear that classic LL Cool J song, “I’m goin’ back to Cali” in my head…but instead of Cali, I hear:

“I’m goin’ back to Seattle, Seattle, Seattle…I’m goin’ back to Seattle”

After nearly a year and a half out of the networking scene, you know…meeting people face-to-face, because of the car wreck, I’m really excited to travel back to Seattle later today for the latest Social Media Club Seattle (SMC Seattle) event for the month of June at the Pyramid Alehouse.

Now, for those of you who are wondering, “What is a social media club?” what better description can I give you than the one given on the national Social Media Club site:

Social Media Club brings together journalists, publishers, communications professionals, artists, amateur media creators, citizen journalists, teachers, students, tool makers, and other interested collaboraters. Essentially the people who create and consume media who have an interest in seeing the ‘media industry’ evolve for everyone’s benefit. We are more than just USERS, we are the reason the tools exist – we are the people who communicate our thoughts and ideas near and far. . .

SMC is now a handful of people managing the global organization on a part time basis, and actively working towards hiring full time staff as SMC files the 501c3 and push the organization further into the global space. Thanks to the efforts of our local leaders, we have grown to over 55 active chapters (40+ in the works) with 10’s of 1000’s of people gathering around the world.

Seattle has been a hotbed of social media of late. It seems that every week, I see a new social media event popping up on the calendar all around the Seattle-metro area. So hot in fact, that Mashable took notice and wrote a great article about Seattle’s social media scene stating:

To learn more about the Seattle chapter of the Social Media Club, you can visit the blog: http://smcseattle.com even learn more about the Seattle chapter’s organizers and/or follow their tweets @SMCSeattle

An AWESOME Seattle Social Media site is called, Seattle Social Media Profiles. It’s a blog dedicated to introducing  and connecting some of the movers and shakers in Seattle’s social media community. There are some great videos interviews on there of which I am not a part of…yet! lol @SeaSMProfiles

There’s also the Seattle Social Media Club page on Facebook.

Another great list of active Seattle social media networkers on Twitter can be found on Twitter Grader. After being ranked #7, I’m surprisingly ranked #2 in Seattle as I’m currently writing this behind who I consider to be the King of Seattle Social Media, Chris Pirillo (@ChrisPirillo) the mind behind Gnomedex. That’s pretty cool for what it’s worth.

Well, I better stop typing and get busy. Must make it up to my favorite lunch spot in Seattle. I’m looking forward to reconnecting with old friends, meeting new ones, a few pictures taken and deepening connections I’ve built through my social network.

I’m out!

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In the mad frenzied rush in social media this past year, there has been an insidious and infectious virus running rampant…far worse than swine flu…it’s “guru-titis”!

A dastardly thing indeed.

You’ve seen them racing through social networking sites in a vortex of hype and a trail of graffiti tweets like “Increase your Twitter followers by eleventy-billion in seconds a day”! Some people have even nicknamed them as “social media ***bags“! (warning, site is a little off-color) Ouch. LOL But unfortunately, it’s an apt description of inept marketers who haven’t been taught the basics of social media networking online.

They’ve blown all credibility. They’ve built no trust.

Their blogs sites are weak on content but off the scale excessive on shiny, blinking things all over in the hopes you’ll buy something and they’ll make some money.

Fortunately…they fade with time…

So I wanted to share a few of the social media marketing blogs/authors (Twitter ID) that DEFINITELY don’t suck and I follow on my Google Reader feed and on Twitter…in no particular order:

Social Media Explorer
@jasonfalls

Social Marketing
@michellem

Copyblogger
@copyblogger

Successfool
@Successfool

ProBlogger
@problogger

PR 2.0
@briansolis

[chrisbrogan.com]
@chrisbrogan

The Social Media Marketing Blog
@scottmonty

The Business of Blogging & New Media
@ChrisGarrett

I could continue with more and more of them but I purposely left a bunch out (hint hint, wink wink ***add your faves***), but this post is for those of you who are new to social media. These sites and thought leaders in social media are a good start. A wealth of HIGH quality information and education to really lay a solid foundation of the RIGHT things to do in your pursuit of the social networking lifestyle.

Leave a comment and include one of your favorites if I didn’t list your favorite here. I’d love to see what everyone is reading. Bring us some value!

Thanks for reading the latest Social Networking Lifestyle post. Don’t forget to be social and tell a friend, tweet about or bookmark this if you enjoyed it.

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Five Ways You Can Build Your Reputation With Social Networking

By Bob Jenkins

Are you using social networks to build your reputation online? Whether you already are or you are just getting started with sites like Twitter, Facebook, and Ning, building your online reputation is your biggest responsibility.
Here are five ways to make sure you do it right.

#1: Be Proud Of Being You

The first thing is, you have to be yourself. You have to be who you are. Because although you can get away with being fake for a little while, as soon as one person realizes that you’re not who you say you are, your reputation is destroyed almost instantly because of the power of social networking.

So be yourself. And don’t be afraid of being yourself. Realize that you have some gifts and some knowledge that people need to know about, and those that want to learn from you are going to gravitate towards you. Those that don’t think you’re worth listening to are basically going to ignore you. And it’s at their peril, so don’t worry about them.

#2: Transparency – Never Hide From Your Audience

The second thing about your reputation is you should try to be transparent at all times. This means you keep everything real with your audience.

For example, over the last year, I used social media to show you my move from Maryland to North Carolina, including drama with the movers, picking the house, and getting it set up. I also pulled back the curtain to show what it takes to run a product launch.

When I did my last product launch, I was Twittering every day what I was doing to get ready for this site. Most of the gurus out there would keep everything under lock and key, and I was being very clear, saying, “This is what I’m doing to get ready for this launch.” It actually helped me have a better launch, even though I told everybody exactly what I was going to be doing.

They didn’t think that they had some surprise or whatever like most people teach; they just were excited to be part of it and part of the story. So be transparent. Let people know what you’re doing and why you’re doing it, and they’re going to learn how to trust you.

#3: Be Positive For Positive Results

The third way to build your reputation is to be positive.

There are folks out there who generally can do a good job of being negative. I don’t know about you, but I don’t find that to be a very long-term profitable strategy.

It may get you some attention at first and spark some controversy, but that’s not the way to go. Be looking forward to the optimistic of your industry, of your business and what the results are going to be.

It would be easy for you to go onto Twitter or onto Facebook and talk about how you’re having a bad day or this product sucks or this week sucks or this relationship sucks. But you’re not really there for a support network, per se.

You’ll find some of that. If you have something bad happen in your life, sharing it with your followers will be very therapeutic for you and you will get a lot of support back. But when you’re just blasting negative things out, you’re going to get negative things in return, usually.

So try to be positive as much as possible and look for the opportunities that are out there and look at them from that positive perspective.

#4: Build Your Reputation And They Will Come

The fourth thing you must do is to be patient. This is because, initially, your reputation is going to be built only by yourself and the first initial people who get to know you. But as time goes on and you get more followers and you build a larger network of friends and peers, your reputation will solidify to allow your business to grow.

Once it hits a tipping point, your reputation and business accelerates at a very quick pace.

So be patient and let it happen. Don’t try this stuff out for a week and then come back to me next week and say, “Well, it didn’t really work. I didn’t really get any results yet.” You’ve got to let social networking play out over a few weeks and then a couple months and so on. A year from now your business is going to be tremendously different compared to where it is right now.

#5: Contribute To The Conversation – Every Day!

The fifth thing about your reputation is you need to be someone that people look to as a contributor, not as a leech, not as a mooch, as a contributor.

You have to be willing to be involved in the conversation, and you have to be willing to give as much or even more than what you’re going to get in return. The people who do that are growing so fast it makes my head spin.

I feel that I’m a pretty giving person but I see some other folks out there that just keep on giving, giving, giving and they just build up a huge following and that social capital is a real asset to your business. So you need to make sure that you’re contributing as much as possible to the conversation.

I don’t mean that as just go around randomly and try to help people. Within your specific task, your specific industry, the things you know well, you need to be at the forefront of letting people know how to do what you know how to do without charging them money at first.

They’ll come and find your site and your products and they’ll pay you for that as time goes on and their needs grow. With social networking you need to be building your reputation up first.

If somebody has a question, you should be one of the first people who answers and you need to answer without reservation not just, “Oh, I answered that in my eBook; go buy it”. They’re going to find your eBook if you just talk to them and give them solutions to the problem they are struggling with at that moment.

Give people your input, your encouragement for them to get better at what they are trying to do.

Any little quick free advice you can give, give it.

Actively Build Your Reputation With Social Networking And Reap The Rewards

You’ve got to be in this for the reason of having fun and really building that relationship. Dollars will come, there’s no doubt about that. But first, connect with people and really help them out. Understand that they’ll become loyal followers of what you do and see you for who you are.

Follow these 5 steps to building your reputation online and you’ll not only beat your competition, you’ll have more fun doing it!

Bob Jenkins teaches business owners how to use internet marketing strategies effectively to attract more customers and get more sales without spending a fortune on advertising. Get more free social networking lessons at www.DiscoverSocialNetworking.com.

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Welcome to Social Networking Lifestyle

- the Blog that helps people use social networking methods to develop income streams from their passions through social media.

My name is Timothy Carter and I’m a full time social media networker from Seattle making a living from this new and dynamic way to build a home based through social media around my passions and building relationships online.

Back in 1997 I stumbled into the beginning of what was the beginning of social media networking on America Online or AOL for short. I didn’t know it at the time but that moment changed my life.

I started utilizing “social networking” when there wasn’t a name for what I did in 1997 on AOL to build relationships & find people interested in starting a home business. For five years I worked at home full time by networking with people on AOL via email & Instant Messenger. Then the network marketing company I was with got themselves in trouble with the FDA & FTC for their marketing claims & ultimately got themselves shut down because of it. That cost me my financial freedom and plunged me back into the work force in sales & property management until 2008 when a car accident nearly took my life.

So I had to relearn a way to make a living. Social media was the channel that would give me the opportunity to work from home again as I continued to recover. I’ve never looked back or regret not working a job.

This site is dedicated to helping other people learn the skills of social media networking, share their own social networking experiences and promote the social networking lifestyle where people can make a living through social media. As well as be a place where I share what I’m doing to continue to learn and build my businesses.

SocialNetworkingLifestyle.com is a blog about creating a living and living a lifestyle with social media networking. Millions of people around the world have started Twitter accounts, Facebook pages, blogs, Tumblr accounts over the last few years. Many of them are personal & private to family and friends, but an increasing number of people are looking to use social media networking to make an income from home due to these economic times.

Unfortunately many people don’t earn enough to buy themselves a triple shot iced americano every month because they don’t know how to EFFECTIVELY utilize the social media tools and networking methods to establish connections and relationships with people.

Social Networking Lifestyle is a blog that aims to share with you the tools & resources entrepreneurs need to make their social media networking better and in doing so, increase their potential earnings from home.

The blog will be covering everything from:

* social networking for beginners
* to finding people in your niche
* to social media articles that inform
* to writing great content for microblogging & blogs
* to using social media to grow your blog & influence
* to make connections with people and build relationships
* to social media, blogging & networking resources and tools

I’m really excited about this and looking forward to sharing this lifestyle here…and someday soon, reading stories of people setting themselves financially free through using social media and networking to build an internet business. We can’t sit around and wait for the government to help bail us out financially…we can take hold of the reigns of our lives…and truly master our destiny…instead of listening to the fear being spread on TV. Plus, it’s a lot of fun living this life!

Thanks for being here and reading this. Leave a mark, let me know you were here with a comment.

Timothy Carter

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